tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34324378677813230652024-02-19T09:21:03.478-08:00Musings from the SandA collection of thoughts, rants, laughs and comments on my daily life in the Middle East....Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06815036375807589699noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3432437867781323065.post-85754217997851554462014-01-14T03:26:00.003-08:002014-01-14T03:26:38.218-08:00Push The Big Red Button .. <div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">What pushes your buttons ? Can we narrow that down even
further ? What pushes your work buttons and what pushes your personal buttons ?
Are they the same ? I doubt it. Then again, how many of us are the same at home
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">It is something I ponder, as I do believe I am myself as
much as can be expected at most times. However this is the rub. No one knows
you like your family right ? Then again, you spend more time with your work
colleagues. So who knows you best, the real you, and do they know which buttons
to avoid. My take on it is that the work buttons are quite well known, and your
colleagues want to avoid them, so in most cases do their best to avoid pushing
the big red button and watching the fireworks that ensue, although, sometimes,
and I have to say it is rare, risky and sometimes doesn’t work. It is worth
pushing the big red button to get something done, however the key to this is to
light the touchpaper and retire, thereby the explosion happens somewhere else
(hopefully where you had planned it) this as noted is risky and you could get
caught in the crossfire. Just depends how much collateral damage you are
willing to receive to get the desired end result.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">That is where it gets complicated for my brain. For me
pushing buttons at work is only worth doing if you need a specific result, an end
a reaction that makes something else happen. There would be no good reason to
do it otherwise, that’s just pointless and not harmonious for the workplace.
The very point of teamwork is to avoid winding people up, working together and
working out how others best work to get the best results. That’s the point. Or
at least I like to think it’s the point.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">Family, they can push the button for no reason at all, by
accident, by design, by coincidence. There is a slightly less worrying edge to
it, because you are family and it will get resolved, there is some level of
sibling button pushing that is expected, without which we wouldn’t learn
boundaries nor would we learn what’s important to us, our siblings. It is
sometimes quite surprising to me what sets me off. That is a learning curve,
the buttons you didn’t know you had, suddenly someone has flicked a switch and
you realize that actually you are hugely offended, and had no sign that you
might be. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">Then you get to friends and partners, somewhere in the no
mans land between family and work. Not family enough to just push the button and
damn the consequences, that would imply a complete lack of care, thought and
consideration. The very basics of which your friendship / relationship is built
upon. As above these can be stumbled onto with complete ignorance, and at that
point it is usually too late to stop the process. Best to just chalk that one
up and remember it for the future. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">Me ? I wont lie. I have many buttons. Some result in minor
sparkler type fireworks and some the full C4. I am still finding them as I grow
older, and also that some of the bigger buttons have somewhat decreased in size
as I mature. Ask 8 year old Maxine about Fox Hunting and all hell would have
broken loose, button deployed, stand back and watch her foam at the mouth. Ask
32 year old Maxine about Fox hunting and whilst I still feel extremely strongly
on the subject, you would have to be going some, and be quite the ignorant fool
to get me riled to the extent where I would lose my temper. However, insult one
of my friends, or much much worse, my family and I will go up like the Atlantis
hotel on New Years Eve. That’s a guarantee and quite an obvious one. My other
major bug bear is inconsistency. If you are going to argue with me make sure
you recall what you said. Make sure your story is consistent. Make sure you
have a point and you can make it, make sure you are not going to back track or
change your story or try to pretend you meant something different than what you
said originally. If you are going to say something. Mean it. Mean it and back
it up. I cannot bear to listen to half stories and explanations of, no I meant
the total opposite to what you heard. No I didn’t say that. I said something
very similar but marginally different. Another thing to add to the list. I have
(currently as I have had no kids) an amazing memory. I can quote you back word
for word. This comes from my days as a padless waitress. Sounds worse than it
actually was. But, I can, and I will. I get immensely frustrated with people
who cannot be true and truthful. People who disguise reality with half truths
and smoke and mirrors. It is probably one of the worst offences. It implies
that I am stupid, it implies I can be misled and it suggests I am easily
fooled. I am not stupid, I am hard to mislead and I am no ones fool. These
things are not hard to note.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">I also have a long memory, which is totally different from
holding a grudge before all the men pop up and start claiming they are hard
done too. Women store up things like this. Not because we are mythical
creatures who love to beat you over the head with past errors, but because no
doubt the last time it happened, it hurt. Therefore it makes an impression. You
do it again, it reminds of the time before that and the time before that. So we
bring it up in an effort to show you (the idiot) that you are not learning. You
are continuing to push the big red button. Over and over again. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">They say the definition of a psychopath is a person who does
the same thing over and over and expects a different outcome. Note to all of
you button pushers. If you are having the same argument over and over again,
the answer is why ? Change of behavior perhaps ?<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">At the end we all have buttons that can be pushed, bad ones
like I describe above or good ones. The good ones are used to manipulate, the
bad ones for reactions and the average ones in between are used for everyday
life. Because everything you say or do elicits a reaction from another person,
in some way. We push buttons all day long every day. Stop and think about the next one you intend
to push and the reaction it will get. It’s worth it in the long run.</span><o:p></o:p></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06815036375807589699noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3432437867781323065.post-88090659121788082242013-02-17T22:55:00.000-08:002013-02-17T22:55:54.191-08:00About a Blog .. <div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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A little cup of irony for breakfast rather than my usual
strong cup of coffee today. Whilst I sipped it I realized that I may have
changed. The old Maxine used to dash straight into things, without a thought or
a care, sure in the knowledge that the fact that I was right was enough. That
moral outrage would see me through and that the world was such a place that
everyone would see that I am right and order would be restored.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Maybe I haven’t changed, maybe I have just learned that this
world is not based upon the right thing, but cowardice and the easy options.
The irony of this morning is that I am blogging about blogging. More
specifically my distaste for certain bloggers. A blog is a blog is a blog. That
is it, they are used for so many reasons, even as a business. More usual is
that they are a diary, an online diary, a voice, interesting words written by
people who want others to read them. Some have topics like weddings, events,
photography and more recently, food. This is where I begin to lose my mind, and
all sense of reason. There are many food blogs, of which I am a major fan. They
discuss recipes, and tips on cooking, and foods and display a love of food in
general. They have advertising, links to other blogs, and websites that are
useful. Then, and this is where I get
frustrated, the reviewers. They are a different type of blogger. <o:p></o:p></div>
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I myself in the past have blogged about restaurants, usually
when I have had a bad experience. I have blogged about hotels, holidays, the
state of the driving in the UAE and Christmas cards and the lack of desire I
have to write them. I write about my life and what’s happening in it.<o:p></o:p></div>
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I see a rise in Food Blogs that are actively e-mailing PR
Managers of hotels and suggesting that they have a ‘reach’ or a ‘following’ and
that a review by them, of the hotel restaurant would (if it is a good one)
improve the footfall into the restaurant. How anyone has the balls to do this
is beyond me? Dear PR manager, I think I am aces, I have loads of followers on
twitter and if you don’t give me a free meal I will tell them that your
restaurant is terrible, kind regards Food Blogger. It is mind boggling. My main problem is these reviews are done not
by a food critic who has discussed the finer ins and outs of the food itself,
not by someone who knows food, not by someone who loves food with an obvious
passion, but by someone who loves Social Media, and the power that it wields. <o:p></o:p></div>
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I happen to have, due to my 16 years in the country a large
and varied network of people in the hotel and PR industry, and it still amazes
me that people here forget that Dubai is miniscule. However, and this is my
major problem, the ‘reach’ that these bloggers have is real, it is not as the
blogger themselves believes to be, it is not an ardent following of ‘foodies’
who are hanging off every typed phrase and horrific photograph waiting to
either rush out and book if the blogger says so, or to neatly cross of the list
of potential outlets if the blog says no. Indeed it is not. The reach is that a
hotel or outlet or brand can become hounded on twitter. They can be besieged by
the blogger and the close knit group of people who follow. It becomes a witch
hunt and then the word of mouth. Before a hotel knows it, they have been
discussed on twitter and a few retweets later the damage is done. The reality
of it is that the people who follow don’t enjoy it either, they just don’t have
the balls to say so. I will no doubt be harassed for doing so myself. However,
I care not. I have the many emails these food bloggers send to people to read
through and laugh at. <o:p></o:p></div>
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If I hear one more PR Manager say to me, but if we don’t give
them the free dinner they asked for they will come and give us a sh*t review, I
will scream. Let them come. Let them review. The people who listen to them are
not your customers anyway. If you would read a food blog and make a decision on
a restaurant that you like the look of based upon one persons review then who would
want them. We live in a world of sheep,
if one person has a blackberry, then it becomes the ‘must have’, if 2 sunglass
clad fools spend 12,000 dhs at a nightclub, then it must be the place to go.
Regardless of if everyone is standing about wondering what they are doing
there. If I hear one more tale of emails about free hotel stays, free holidays,
free samples I think I may have to resign from twitter. It isn’t how it is
done. When you show me your statistics and what you can do for my company in
black and white, in numbers then maybe I will entertain you. Until then …. <o:p></o:p></div>
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What these bloggers don’t know, is there is a silent group
of people who don’t barge onto twitter and share things, but email each other,
from hotel to hotel, from PR to PR, from Journo to Journo, laughing. Laughing
at you. Thinking to themselves that 1 dinner really isn’t the end of the world
to just keep you quiet. That’s the problem. It’s easier to keep you quiet than
to just put an end to it. One day. One day a PR manager somewhere will just hit
print screen and this will all be over. Sadly it won’t be me. I will keep the e-mails and I will re-read
them and laugh.<o:p></o:p></div>
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The point of my somewhat rambling note, is that the concept
of a mystery shopper is a brilliant one. If you get a free meal, you will be
served differently. If you don’t get a free dinner, but you let them know you
are coming, paying and reviewing Same.
Thing. They will treat you differently. The only way you can guarantee that you
get a fair idea of a restaurant and how it operates is to just book and go. Then
try writing about the atmosphere, the parking, the service and the food.
Because a night out is an experience, not just what’s on your plate.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06815036375807589699noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3432437867781323065.post-17869404430086169882012-10-09T07:34:00.003-07:002012-10-09T07:34:33.723-07:00Because of their love .. <div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Sometimes you think of the sad things. I was reminded the
other day about Mums and Dads and all the things we, as horrific children,
inflicted upon them as we grew. We are, musically told to apologise, to say
sorry for the hurt and worry we caused them.<o:p></o:p></div>
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I think, I do. However whilst I caused worry, and hurt, and
broken hearts, and nasty words, which we all do, some more than most. I think
of all the things I would like to thank my Parents. When you are grown, you
forget the things your parents did to entertain you, to make you laugh, to keep
you happy and to make you smile. These things fade from your memory, but you
should remember them. These are the times that mean the most to me. These are
the things that scream love, way more than presents, material things or saying
the words. These are the things that shape a child. These are the things that
have made me grow up and expect that everyone had the same as me. When I find,
and I find it more and more that other people didn’t have the same life as me
growing up, and by life I mean love and family. Then I am sad, sad that no one went
out of their way to make a child feel the way I was made to feel, for it be
effortless and ‘usual’.<o:p></o:p></div>
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I bought my mother a necklace, I loved it. It was beautiful,
it was perfect for her, it was shiny, and it sparkled, and I chose it. The
reality was that it was vile, plastic and made her look like she was going to a
fancy dress party. But. She wore it, she put it over every outfit she ever
chose to go out in. She put it on, she looked in the mirror and she told me how
clever I was, and how much she loved it. She went out, hid it in the glove box
of her car, then put it on again to come home. To tell me everyone asked about
it, told her how beautiful it was and how great I am. That, is love. My Father,
where to begin, he hid behind walls for hours to jump out and scare me. He
patiently sat and helped me stick fake blood to my knee to scare mum with. He
built me my own fairy princess cabin bed, and a dressing table just for me. He
hung every rosette I ever won on my walls, and he let me know every single day
that I could ask him anything in the world.<o:p></o:p></div>
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I have millions of stories like these, that make me think of
my life with happiness, fuzzy felt, meccano, 3 hour round trips to school trips
so that I could sleep in my own bed, but still join in the school holiday
during the day. My father and I Christmas shopping for mum, our yearly trip to
the Metro Centre where we shopped, and he, the maestro of shopping patiently
listened to me and my horrendous suggestions (see above plastic bead story). My
father, the big man, trailing the Metro looking for a suit for me, spending
hours trying to show me the value of class and quality.<o:p></o:p></div>
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These things, these are the things that make a family. Not
saying sorry all the time, not wishing you had done things differently, but the
memories of how your parents went out of their way, over and over and over
again to make you who you are. <o:p></o:p></div>
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My family let me grow up believing that this was standard.
That a phone call at 3 in the morning for a lift was ok, because they were
there for me. No. Matter. What. That I could go to them, with any problem,
challenge or upset and it would be fixed, that we as a family would have a
conference, and fix it. That nothing was insurmountable, and nothing couldn’t be
achieved. This wasn’t drummed into me. Nor repeatedly reminded. It was natural.
I grew up safe in the easy knowledge that this was standard. Its not. Maybe that’s
why I demand so much from people. Expect that they will be the same. Expect
that family is the most important thing in the world. Expect that your first
thought is how you can make someone elses life easier and better. What you can
do to make someone happy.<o:p></o:p></div>
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This is the gift they gave me, and whilst it means the realization
that everyone isn’t like that is damn hard, and really tough. I wouldn’t have
it any other way. Look at me and my brother .. but he is another story.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06815036375807589699noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3432437867781323065.post-21315647738287669082012-06-28T00:59:00.003-07:002012-06-28T00:59:46.566-07:00We Built This City on Rock and Roll ......<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I love music, that is a well-known fact. It is also a
well-documented fact, when I say documented I mean face booked, twittered and
blogged. I have blogged about my love of music and where it started, I have
blogged about how I believe people should be fearless in their love of music,
not ashamed, not embarrassed but totally and utterly immersed in what they
love, regardless of if people judge you for it. I certainly don’t care, if I
did I probably wouldn’t be so vocal about my outright love of Michael Ball for
instance. However, and be warned this is
a peril of the industry, you can make music your life, and then you can forget
the point of music. Let me be clear, you can never really forget, because the
instant you hear the opening notes of a song that means something to you, you
are incapable of turning off the emotions that will flood through you. That is
as obligatory as growing older. What you can forget is the all-consuming,
passionate desire to sing and dance along to something. The inescapable sheer
delight of abandoning yourself to damn fine music.<o:p></o:p></div>
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This whole blog has to be dedicated to Rock of Ages, it
brought me back to when I was 18, when I could forget everything, the time,
that my feet hurt, that I had to get up the next morning, that anything else
existed. That is what live music is capable of doing to you. I can distinctly
remember standing in a bar called 49ers, watching a band having so much fun,
and putting so much into their performances that I danced and sang until my
shoes broke and my voice was hoarse. That gives me the same feeling as I got
when I stood in front Tom Jones at the age of 8 and realized what live music
really was. This followed me through concert after concert and night after
night in rockbottom. It’s what makes me tick inside. <o:p></o:p></div>
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I remember, and I am sure my Mother and Father remember very
clearly, my first ever night out ‘clubbing’. I was to all intents and purposes
at the cinema. Unbeknownst to my Mother and Father, I was in one of Newcastles
dodgiest bars (the only one I thought my brother wouldn’t see me in) having a fine
old time. The next day I was duly grounded, my brother and his all-seeing
network of friends were a little concerned as to why on earth his 15 yr old
sister was in a bar called Bonkers at the weekend. Cue 2 months of misery, a
month of being grounded, then more weeks and days of being grounded for
refusing to speak to my poor brother, who I blamed with a massive passion for
being restricted to barracks. At the end of all the teenage kicking off and
moaning, my Father asked me had my one night in a nightclub been worth all that
hassle and I calmly replied that yes, indeed it had been. He looked aghast and
I explained that I had danced, sung, danced, twirled around and had the time of
my life, and whilst there were bottles of two dogs on the go, that wasn’t my
main reason for being there. It was the music. A plan was formed, and my
brother became my guardian, taking me clubbing and allowing me to dance my
little socks off in such places as ‘planet earth and legends’, fast forward to
Dubai, and bars with real life people in them singing music. Old school music,
heaven.<o:p></o:p></div>
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From then until now live music has been a part of my world.
However I haven’t recently found myself in any situation where I have lost the
sense of who I am, where I am or what I am doing. That’s what a real live
concert should do to you. I watched Rock of Ages and I watched Tom Cruise
capture the old school Rock Gods with perfect sweat inducing, jack daniels
drinking strutting perfection and it made me yearn for a wild night out.
Watching the shots of people crammed in bars having the night of their lives,
made me wish to be in a bar, sweaty and tired and smiling like a kid at
Christmas.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Tom Cruise looks into Alec Baldwins eyes and tells him he
wants to set his club on fire, I get goose bumps, that kind of
insane night out has eluded me for awhile, maybe it’s because I am no longer
22, maybe it’s a lack of the right kind of night out. It led me to think about
todays music, and what will happen when I have kids. How I will apologise for
our rubbish generation of music. My Father introduced me to Foreigner, Tom
Jones, Hall and Oates, Doobie Brothers, Alexander o Neil, Def Leppard and many
many more, that genuinely changed my life. Can you imagine the scene in my
house in a few years, come on Redding Junior sit here and mammy will get you to
listen to some music, this is Kylie, she spins around. This, right here, is
J-Lo, she’s just Jenny from the block, very deep. Don’t forget this one here;
LMFAO, he is sexy and he knows it.
Followed up by a little Beyonce, who suggests that if boys like ‘it’
they should put a ring on it. It makes me sad. You have to dig deep for the
greats, the Alicia Keys, Oasis, Adele, who by the way is starting to get
annoying. Stop over exposing her and let me enjoy her goddamn music. I will be
telling my children to delve deeper, go back further and enjoy a time where
Musicians wrote their own music, where they once upon a time had to carry their
own instruments and gigged in bars for no money and lived on mates sofas.
Unlike this nation of self-made, spoiled brats who wouldn’t know a snog lyric
if it smacked them in the face. Call me maybe ? I’d like to call you something
and it certainly won’t be ‘maybe’. You haven’t actually lived until you have
owned and played an LP. This makes me sound old, and a bit of a wet blanket,
however I don’t care. I just can’t get up the same enthusiasm for watching a
man press play and play music he made on a computer to thousands of people,
when I could don my boots, and go dance and listen to an actual musician growl
into a microphone, telling me something about his life.<o:p></o:p></div>
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passion over One Direction any day. The new Beatles ? Please.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">This is my darling other half trying to understand what it
feels like to have your hormones de-rail. For your normal peaceful life, with a
bout of PMS thrown in here and there. Not that we ever admit it, we just blame
our men for being particularly irritating at the same times every month, you
would think they would learn, to go totally off track. Here however I have to
give him a huge barrel full of credit because he really does want to
understand, and he really is a great support. Thankfully. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">I tried to explain it, but it’s difficult, it’s hard to
explain how your body can do one thing, and your brain another. How you can
look down on yourself sitting on the floor in front of your new oven in tears
and think ‘WOAH Maxine what on earth is your deal ?’.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The same way as when I have decided that a
romantic meal, the night before my darling has surgery is the correct time to
have a massive rant at him about things that aren’t exactly important at that
moment. Whilst again, there is a small part of me tugging on my shoulder and
telling me this is a) really not very nice and b) totally out of character.
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Oven in, shiny, working, marble intact and everything I
needed and wanted, aside from 1 tiny tile. Easily fixable, and yet my usual go
get them attitude totally deserted me, and my mother’s suggestion of popping to
the shops to get a replacement was met with a rapid of tears so big you would
have thought someone had told me that I could never cook again and that I could
never eat chocolate ever. It was tremendous. My mother took one look at me,
popped me on the sofa and called in for back up. An appointment with our GP, a
woman who has the heart of a lion, the patience of a saint and the humour of
Billy Connolly. Thankfully she is a whizz and I am now fully back on track and
will not be crying over ovens in the near future, fear not those of you who
have been invited for dinner.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Hormones are quite the things. They are so much in control
of you and yet most people know little to nothing about them, they also know
little to nothing about how they can be knocked off track, what affects you and
how you can put them right. For me its progesterone, me and it have a shaky
relationship, and when it builds up to high, added to my insomnia, a 3 hour
commute, and 6 weeks of visitors and a house move, it means that all the walls
come down and Maxines hormones have a party. The boss is gone, no one is in
charge and they are willy nilly doing whatever they like. So therefore inappropriate
responses become standard, new tiles = tears, end of a book = end of the world,
no cable for a TV that I barely watch = rage equal to that of a wwe wrestler.
However this hormone imbalance can affect more than whether I am a nightmare to
live with or not. It can affect fertility, sexual drive, ovulation, headaches
and can go on to other things. It’s something to note, something to watch for
and then equally something that you need to fix. I caught it early, thanks to
my family and my man having the ability to say to me, you are not yourself.
This is not you, what’s wrong ? Albeit having to have a couple of goes at
getting me to listen whilst dodging left hooks and proffering tissues. In all
my long travels with my health, and my many issues and revelations, I have
learned that the most important thing you can do for yourself is to listen to
your body. Sounds easy ? It’s not. You have to learn to hear what its telling
you, and why, and how you can placate it, or ease its pain. It’s difficult, but
once you learn the language your body can tell you things you never dreamed it
would say. I have learned, and it’s been the best thing I ever did. I talk
about it with friends, or here in my blog because if I help just one person to
get to where I am quicker than it took me, then it’s worth sharing my internal
life struggles.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">If your body is tired, and tells you so, then it is, listen
to it, slow down. Don’t tell me you can’t, because I am the queen of the
excuses. My job, my life, my world, I need too, I must, I have too. You don’t.
You don’t HAVE to do things. You can change the things you are in control of.
Take the right vitamins, ensure you eat the right way, feed your body right and
it will help you out when you need it too. 4 hours sleep ? Come on body you owe
me one, you need to man up and get me through til its home time. If you have been
good to yourself most times your body steps up and helps you out. Me ? it took
my body totally shutting down on me and refusing to work until I listened to
get its message across. I am much better now. I stop sometimes, pop the ear
plugs in and do what I want to do. My body just reacts by doing one of many and
varied things to spite me. Bloating, migraines, restless legs, rashes. Just a
little taster of what it could really do should you choose to continue to
ignore the signs and notes it is leaving for you.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">A busy few weeks, with not enough sleep and a fairly laisez
faire attitude to the vitamins meant that my body was knocking on the door for
me to sort myself out. So my hormones decided to fall out of sync. Major
league. So for now its good food, sleep and a multitude of different vitamins
and exercise to get me back into listening mode. Helped out with a few well-placed
drugs along the way. What ? You thought I was a do gooder ? No way, I am never
against some artificial help to beat the buggers back into submission.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Listen to your body though, most of the time you don’t end
up needing to fight, you can get along perfectly well. Otherwise it’s just like
being permanently pissed off !!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06815036375807589699noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3432437867781323065.post-76087786881868618542012-01-22T05:07:00.000-08:002012-01-22T05:27:04.473-08:00Noisy Neighbours<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span style="font-family: Calibri;">I don’t think it is too much to ask for a quiet nights
sleep. It is something that is becoming ever further out of my reach, and it
seems that unless I resort to sleeping pills and ear plugs it will remain
unreachable.<o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">The RTA seems to take a great delight in going silent around
5pm, the monotonous drilling noise that I am ever so attached to grinds to a
halt, and normal everyday noise (noise that can be tuned out) commences. This,
at a time when the radio is on, the TV is on, you are chatting with your loved
ones, is nice. Not necessary at all though. However, the moment, and I mean the
moment your little head touches the nearest pillow, they begin drilling. Not
quiet drills. Not slightly in the background and can get used to them
eventually drills, and not drills they may just have on for an hour at most.
No, major, huge, beyond loud, drills. Drills that sound like they have taken up
residence on your balcony if not inside your ear drum. They sound like they
have brought some crystal tipped behemoth to drill through a mountain. On the
Sheikh Zayed Road. They carry on this wonderful performance until you are so
out of your mind that you are tempted to commit a murder. Then abruptly around
5am. Peace. Just in time for you to go to sleep and get little enough sleep
that you then feel like a zombie all day long.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">I appreciate that this work needs to be done. I accept that
in order for me to get home 30 minutes quicker it’s a price I have to pay. I
understand that they work all the hours that god sends, and I empathise with
those that have to do it. What I don’t understand is a tiny little thing called
humanity. It is a heavily residential area, why can’t you drill from 6am til
10pm, surely the project (and I know all your project planners will start
whining about timelines at this point) wouldn’t fall behind that much if the
noisy work is restricted during the hours of the night that are required by me
to sleep in order to not murder anyone. Also, the Emirates girls live next to
me, no-one needs a grouchy airhostess, they are too damn important to be tired,
its tiring enough doing what they do, without you lot keeping them up all
night. Me ? I have to drive up the long road to Abu Dhabi, as do countless
other morons and tired people. The less people who are slightly tired and not
at 100% the better as far as my safety goes.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">It’s a boring moan, its nothing new, but its what’s making
me grouchy this week, along with my event report, but I know we are all very
sick of hearing about this, almost as sick as I am of writing the damn thing.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Back to work it is, then back to the long road back to the long
night of noise and pursuit of sleep. Ear plugs tonight.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06815036375807589699noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3432437867781323065.post-46194854280427160252011-12-29T02:29:00.000-08:002011-12-29T02:29:16.690-08:00To Change or not to Change<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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towards 2012 we see the inevitable, good riddance to 2011,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>heres hoping 2012 will be better comments. A
lot of store is set by new year, people make fresh starts, new diets, new
resolutions and make changes to their lives. I have never really understood it,
aside from the human physche needing an actual push and shove to get them to do
something that they could have done at any given point during the year. It has
always confused me, and it is one of a few reasons why I don’t a) get excited
about New Year and b) why I don’t make resolutions. This year I chose to lose
weight, I chose to drop the kilos, and I did. It didn’t take a momentus
occasion, or a special date, or a change in the roatation of the earth. I just
woke up and decided to do something about it and I have. I am now over 17 kilos
down and it didn’t require a calendar change, it did however require a wardrobe
change.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This means that I walk into January
with a smile, no long terrified to stand on the scales, and no longer scouring
the back of the rails in stores to find clothes that will fit. It took me a
long time to figure out what was wrong with me, and once I did I havent looked
back. Except to look at pictures of my old self and think how sad it was that I
hadnt found the key to my success earlier.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-no-proof: yes;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">I wont be making a new beginning
this year, I am making plans, but I do not want to brush 2011 aside and pray
for a happier year. I would indeed hope that 2012 brings more of the same for
me, in the sense that 2011 gave me a lot. It gave me a project that taught me a
lot, and not just in work terms, it taught me a lot about who I am. 2011
brought me my family to the same building as me, strengthening a bond that was
already unbreakable. It brought me my other half who in turn brought me a sense
of calm and a sense of priority.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-no-proof: yes;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">This year there will be
no flippant remarks about ensuring that I don’t die my hair purple or drink too
much, that is inevitable. The drinking, not the hair dye. Their will be more of
what you have seen of the junior Redding in 2011, more music, more events, more
working my ass off. Less ranting, less partying and less tears. I will remain
at my desk doing what I believe I do best, working with some remarkable people
to bring what is quite clearly one of the biggest loves of my lives, great
music, to your doorsteps and to your ears. I shall also continue to be
delighted by the man in my life, who has to be the most patient man alive, I
shall remember how lucky I am to have him and to have the life that I do. I
shall strive to be like my Father, who still to this day pushes boundaries and
has vision and strength that men somehow lack these days, I shall celebrate my
Mother, one of the most special and remarkable women I have ever known who is
so much to so many but remains the most to me, and my brother, the man who
quietly shines, and with no pomp just silently goes about being my brother in
the best way he can, in a way that no other could.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-no-proof: yes;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">New Year should be a quick
pit stop, time for us to look back and note the things in our lives that we
love, and want to continue to cherish, you don’t need a date, or a countdown or
fireworks to help you make a change. If you want something badly enough, no
calendar date will stop you. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-no-proof: yes;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">I wish everyone a great
New Year and I know I am looking forwards, and not back to what will be, I am
sure, another great year.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06815036375807589699noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3432437867781323065.post-83906628490299745722011-12-19T22:32:00.000-08:002011-12-19T22:32:15.128-08:00Christmas Spirits ...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span style="font-family: Calibri;">So its Christmas, a lot has happened since I last blogged,
and so before the Christmas shenanigans begin and the New Year let down, as it
inevitably is starts to loom, I thought it about time I put some of my
wandering thoughts down on paper. So in no particular order, what’s new<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>in my world ?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Well the Boy is new. Well, he isn’t new he has been around for 38 years
(he may kill me for that) but he is new to me, and new to most of you too,
although I have done, in my humble opinion a rather fantastic job of trying to
introduce to him as many of you as possible. The slightly terrified look on his
face whenever I say the words ‘we have a dinner with some friends this week’ is
testament to how many of you I have shown him off too. He also gets a massive
gold star for remembering 99% of you. So he is what’s new in my world, he is
also what’s happy in my world (cue sentimental ridiculousness comments here),
being that he is quite unbelievably awesome. However this is what you should
expect when your Mother orders your boyfriend off the internet. Don’t raise
your eyebrows at the computer, no Pauline hasn’t worked out how to shop online
at all, I am indeed joking. I do however believe that someone put a list of
things that would suit me perfectly and then checked them off next to his name
and then sent him my way. Sadly no one did the same for him, and he is left
wondering how this happened to him. However we do hope he never works it out </span><span style="font-family: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;">J</span></span><o:p></o:p><br />
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<span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">The Science Festival is over, and it surpassed even my own
expectations, all the months of rages and tears and damn hard work paid off.
Yes I was rewarded with a new scar on my leg where a small child was so
desperate to get inside the Festival that he kicked me out of his way as he
hurtled towards the door. Small child was wearing tiny little boots, that I
believe had steel toe caps, and so as I was left bleeding (fact) he hurtled off
into the festival, followed at a more sedate pace by his Mother, who
occasionally yelled encouraging things such as, ‘quick before anyone else gets
there’ and ‘Just ask for 2 of everything’ as he bounced off our theatre tickets
desk. It was indeed a spectacle. Watching 3000 kids a day line up and troop
into the hall, with excited little faces and their too big uniforms was a
little bit sweet. Watching them leave not looking so tidy whilst clutching
windmills and mini robots and frantically shoving cereal bars in their faces
was practically heady. I did however get to meet the Boss. Yes, the main man
himself H.H. Sheikh Mohamed Bin Zayed Al Nahyan, our Crown Prince. Not only did
he shake my hand and pronounce it a pleasure (I always knew I had an awesome
handshake, and we all know it’s a pleasure to meet me, so no surprises there),
he requested a photograph, and then very nicely told me to enjoy my stay. My only
worry out of this exchange is that he knows something I do not, I mean after
all he is the man in the know, and he seems to think my time here is limited. I
shall keep you posted on my movements, however I am avoiding blacked out trucks
and people with bags. So the festival is done, with over 121,000 people through
its doors I was quite rightly the most tired person ever. It is done though,
and as I said I was so annoyed with the festival I was going to beat it into
submission, I got very close, it came back at me for a couple of rounds, but in
the end, and after a stewards enquiry I was declared the Victor. I cant tell
you yet what my spoils were, but it’s an emphatic return to Music. Which whilst
I am still the most tired person alive, is still making me grin. I almost am
bursting with excitement and the need to tell people but as always my lips are
not only sealed, but stapled and glued shut. I am however fully shouting from
the rooftops about ColdPlay<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">I am fully in the Christmas Spirit, it took me a little longer,
thanks to being felled, literally by a bug / virus / fatigue thing. Apparently
according to the fully crazy Dr I saw ( the usual magician I see had dared to
go on holiday) I had fatigue of the muscles as well as a virus. So on the same
day that my poor Mothers Christmas tree crashed to the ground in front of her
eyes, so did her daughter. That was a bad day for the Mothership. A cracked
tree and a knacked Daughter. It also was a bad omen for my poor boy, who spent
his birthday cooking me bacon sarnies and cuddling me while I cried. I manned
up for the present giving, although it was done in my Pyjamas, and then dug
deep and headed out for his Birthday dinner, which by any means was a
resounding success. Red wine, steak and chips and a whole lot of laughter meant
that the day was not lost altogether, plus I have a sneaky suspicion that the
QPR football club cakes were a definite winner …. Many girlfriend brownie
points gained there (swiftly lost again during the ‘please note your girlfriend
is rubbish when ill’ period swiftly following the birthday).<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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done ahead of time, I am being overly smug about this, and its not helping
anyone, or making anyone like me very much. It is however making me feel much
better about Christmas and the Redding Family tradition of ‘best present’ as
ever we are competing, to see who gives the best gift. Not in terms of money or
size but in terms of thought. I think I have this sewn up. Then again I think
that every year. So let’s wait and see.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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Science Festival, and looking forward to the arrival of Chris and the gang, New
Years Eve is going to be damn cold, damn amazing and I get to spend it with my
damn fine boyfriend, and Coldplay (coldplay coming a close second) which I cant
wait for, ringing in our first new year together to fireworks and live music, doesn’t
get much better than that for me.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">So on that note I wish you all a festive weekend and my wish is
that you spend it wherever you are, with friends and family, and that you laugh
and smile and forget all your worries for one day. For those of you who are my
Kandora wearing friends, please excuse us while we all go a little insane, its
like Eid, just with a tree.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06815036375807589699noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3432437867781323065.post-50407856119041641232011-10-02T08:07:00.000-07:002011-10-02T08:07:26.632-07:00Bentley, it doesnt need anything else...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> <br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">So, being given a Bentley for the weekend is one thing (she says casually), but being given the 2012 Bentley Continental Flying Spur Speed is something else indeed. I learned this very fast. I screamed (like a girl) put down the phone and was met with a row of frowns. The boys of the offices were appalled. Why should someone such as me be given such a gift, I had no clue just what miracle of technology and mechanics was being given to me, I assured my boys I was worthy of this car and that I could drive it the way it should be driven. They shook their heads and walked away safe in the knowledge that I would be unable to appreciate such a beast. The joy of saying to people ‘oh yes I will be picking up the Bentley on Thursday’ was immense. I was in seventh heaven and I hadn’t even seen the car yet.<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">The wheels of the Bentley have the trademark ‘B’ in the middle Enough to delight any female, talk to me of alloys and I will yawn, talk to me of shiny silver wheels with a monogram middle, now you are talking. Add to that a key that is weighty, shiny and very very Bentley. It becomes your latest fashion accessory. Forget the car for a moment, hard I know but humour me. Walking into a boutique with that little number hanging off your finger makes a sales assistant look up and take you very seriously all of a sudden. I am thinking about buying just the key as I cant quite afford the car yet. You will see I photographed the wheel of my new favourite thing. I was becoming very fond of the Bentley ‘B’. The inside of the car was all cream leather and tan piping, I was utterly delighted I was wearing matching Tan Louboutins. I have to note though, that despite having paid a fortune for the leather keeping my feet from burning on the tarmac, they were in no way a match for the leather keeping my jeans clad bum comfortable whilst I nipped to the airport to collect the girls.<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">En route upstairs in the panoramic lifts, my hair do took a bit of a battering thanks to the distinct lack of AC, but the welcome was just as warm as the airless lift. We were escorted to our table, and regardless of the reservation being in my name, so began the evening of calling my friend Mr. Redding, when he is neither my brother nor my father nor my husband. The mistake can be understood once, granted, but it gets a bit wearing after time. The view is as always spectacular, and the service lovely. We were welcomed by the manager, and despite saying we didn’t want to look at the Al Mahara menu’s were presented with them. Turned out to be a great touch, and the ease of which our bill was transferred downstairs and the genuine smiles of all the staff are what makes Al Muntaha a fantastic place. Skyview bar I love. I especially love their blue cheese and cheese quiche. Genius.<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Al Mahara, having had so much conversation about the dress code it was a shame that it wasn’t being upheld by all the diners that evening, and the evening wouldn’t have been quite the same without the family next to us who took photos of each meal, each course and every fish in the tank, the click of that camera became quite the accompaniment. The manager was obviously quite liberal with his ‘discretion’ that evening. The most used phrase of the evening had to be ‘sorry for interrupting …’ I don’t think I have ever had so many waiters enquire as to if we are having a nice time before. I was tempted at this point to create a sticker for my dinner date with his name on it, in an effort to get the staff to talk to each other and let them know that calling him Mr. Redding was going to elicit me sighing and telling them for the 3<sup><span style="font-size: x-small;">rd</span></sup> time that I was Miss Redding and he was not actually a Redding. Something which may seem a little pedantic, but in this day and age, discretion should be top of the list at a 7 star hotel. Thankfully I am not an undercover spy or indeed having an affair, or cheating on a non-existent husband, so it all it caused was mild amusement rather than an international incident, although it would have been great if I wielded enough power to have gone that route. The food itself was great. What I wanted to have was food I wasn’t going to get anywhere else, the kind of food that leaves you raving about it, you know the heaven on a plate, how on earth did you do that kind of food. A great example is the black cod in Zuma. I can see you all nodding, or the roast pork in Gary Rhodes mezzanine, bliss indeed, or the ribs in Billy blues, or the fish and chips at the Rivington, all the things that make you smile and forget everything else. The fish and chips in the Rivington can literally make me forget anything else except them and how cold my wine is. The food in the burj was great. Very nice indeed. Well mine was, I can report back that my opposites plate was cleaned both times, although as he had Lamb I cannot comment (hate the stuff) although it did look raw enough that a good vet could get it back on its feet without too much hassle. Having asked for it medium, the response was that it was ‘painted’.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The wine was exceptional, 10 brownie points to J for choosing wisely and a million brownie points to the Burj for actually serving it cold enough to stop me having to ask for ice cubes and reveal my peasant like attitude to wine.<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
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It got me thinking, I would never bunjee jump, because thats for mentalists, and I cant dive because everytime someone puts a mask on me and puts me under the water I hyperventilate and cry. That in my head made me fairly wimpy. Then I realised that not many people can say they went to the North Pole, not many people have crawled on their hands and knees through a glacier in the pitch dark, little to no-one I know has stood at the bottom of a slippery icy tunnel to the outside of a cave and believed they might not make it up without needing to call in the helicopters. The actual number of people who have done that is two, me and the woman who stood behind me and literally willed me out the top. I have detoxed in Thailand (mild in comparison) for 7 days, of fasting and colonics. I sit at my desk and wonder what next ? What should I be doing next to push the limits ? It makes me think that alot of my achievements in life come from pushing boundaries, and testing limits. My limits, other peoples, mostly mine.<br />
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It also makes me think what next ? What next indeed, half of me is done and wants to go lie on a beach and drink cocktails, the other half of me wants to do more, do something that isnt about me potentially. The North Pole was about Breast Cancer, but when I got there I realised it was about me, it was about something I needed to do for myself. Yes thats all very deep and reflecty, however it wasnt designed to be. But if you put me and my own thoughts in a room together with nothing else to do for 8 hours a day, you do tend to reflect. Thoughts bounce around the inside of your head until they bump into each other and you end up with an epiphany of sorts. I tried to drown out the incessant chatter with music, but -32 degrees tends to fuck with the electrics somewhat. My brain wiring as well as my iPod. Again the fasting I did was for my body, but it ended up being about my mind too. A clear out indeed. <br />
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So it seems that the clutter of my life, and the millions of thoughts that are thought, stored, spoken, deleted, saved, shared on a daily basis need me to take myself away from it and push myself to the limits in order to be able to come together at their own pace and form actual coherent ideas. It seems that some of my thoughts were designed to hook up and then reveal their point to me, but in order for that to happen I need to be not looking. If that makes sense.<br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">This last month has been a learning curve. Learning that some people view music without passion, which I have had to learn to just accept without understanding. That is a concept that is as alien to me as to why people like U2. That however is a different story. Music for me is tied into passion. Music is memories and reminders, and music is life and love and tears and laughter. Everything in my life has some kind of relationship to music. Those who know me, know that nothing is better to me than live music, add an impossibly cold glass of Sauvignon to the mix and I will literally be smiling from ear to ear (that is a good note for potential date ideas).</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I find it is damn near impossible (unless you are sticking pins in your eyes, and that would be a tad drastic) to be unhappy when faced with good live music. I can chart my life by music. I blame my Mother and Father, my father slightly more if I had to be fair because he fed my ‘habit’ as a youngster, giving me shiny LP’s of people like Hall and Oates, Buddy Holly, Alexander O Neil and Tom Jones to name but a few. He also managed to pass on an uncanny ability to pick a winner out of a bag of rubbish, we can see a hit at 20 paces. It may or may not be the only one your band is going to have, but a hit it will be. If you haven’t heard of it, I can bet you money right here and now that you go listen to it and you will hear a hit too. Living in a box, by living in a box. Classic song. Will forever remind me of Papa T. He also taught me to love all kinds of music. One minute we can listen to Luther Vandross, and then flip over and throw some ACDC into the mix. My Father still does it to this day. He pointed out Flo Rida to me months before I had heard of him. He pronounced an unknown black singer as a potential up and coming, and so Toni Braxton was born. He took me to see Tom Jones when I was 8 years old, he forked out money for me to see Alexander O Neil, the Buddy Show, Luther Vandross to name but a few, he spent a small fortune in the name of teaching his little girl to love music as much as him and my mum do. It was money well spent. Not only is live music my love, it is my work and my escape. How lucky am I ?</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">My mother on the other hand taught me to be fearless in my appreciation of talent. I can hear a good voice, or spot a talented musician with a blindfold on. That’s her doing. She taught me to see talent in any shape or form and not be scared to love it. I have spent my life being annoyed by people who ‘conform’. I have been to see Michael Bolton numerous times, I would sell my liver (if anyone would have it) and quite possibly my left hand to go and see Michael Ball again, once just wasn’t enough. I say this out loud, to people and they are stunned. How can someone who works in ‘music’ dare say that she loves Michael Ball. That’s embarrassing. Really ? I find it more embarrassing that you so called music lovers and artists cannot see the talent that one man has. To have been the Phantom of the Opera, to have been Andrew Lloyd Webbers darling, to have been our Eurovision hope, to have over 10 albums that have sold into the millions. To have possibly one of the best voices of our time (acknowledged by king of cool Simon Cowell), is that embarrassing ? Because he doesn’t fit into what is ‘cool’. Amy Winehouse thinks he is the coolest guy alive. Does that make him a little cooler ? I hope the answer is no, because she to me is everything that is wrong with the music industry, in one woman. </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I have been taught by Mama bear to watch those DVDs of mine and be proud of the fact I adore his voice. I said out loud that Brandon Flowers cant actually sing, people look at me like I just committed a crime. Madonna, one of the most successful artists alive. Cant sing. Talented ? Yes, vocally ? Nope. I admire her for her ability but not for her voice. I look at people like the sugababes and feel sick. I look at local talent (yes you guys at players and all of you who I champion) and could cry that you aren’t seen. Talent. That’s the key. Someone asked me what music I like and I asked a friend how the hell do I answer that. He said its simple in your case, if you didn’t write it yourself, play it yourself or sing it yourself I am not interested. Talent. Its what it always comes back to, like a fat kid to cupcakes and like a dog to a bone. Talent. This is why I cant stand Mick Jagger. He has the ‘it’ factor but the bloke cant sing. Rod Stewart another shining example of a man with ‘something’ but not talent.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Music is a mixture, for me it charts progress and memories. Today for example in a quest for artists I have been playing on my iTunes and also on youtube.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">David Grey, flipped me right back to an apartment in London, sitting on a yellow sofa waiting for my then boyfriend to come home from work on my first night visiting him. Makes me happy (even though he was a douche) because it was a beautiful day, and a great glass of wine and I was super happy.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Train, drops of Jupiter, takes me back to being one of the first people to ever play them on the radio in the UAE, sat in a studio, earphones on, overlooking the back of Sheikh zayed road at one of my first ever evening shows, feeling nervous and happy to be a radio DJ at last.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Rob Thomas : 3am, I was 17. I had just met my first real love and I used to play this and it drove him insane, reminds me of laughing at him in one of our rare moments outside of his restaurant.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Toto – Rosanna – Smokey bar, wooden floors, short hair and my first taste of live band music and this song takes me to the night my mum requested this. My boyfriend played it and she loved him almost as much as me that night. My mum had her 2 best friends with her and we laughed and danced and laughed and danced. Awesome memory.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Oasis – Champagne Supernova – Amie Gibbons house, her bedroom, getting ready to begin one of our many many adventures. We listened to it religiously and although I am not the biggest Oasis fan this song transports me back to being a happy teenager with my best friend. There is a lot of music that takes me back to Amie, nirvana puts me in a maroon blazer standing in our form lines listening to on shared ear plugs. Its raining men takes me to a hilarious drunken night in a bar called strawberry moon, the list goes on.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Robbie Williams, Jesus in a camper van, directly to Nathalie Cockaynes old apartment, do not pass go and do not collect 200 dhs. Weirdly hearing him doesn’t take me to the concert, it takes me to her flat, Vodka and cranberry juice and hoi sin chicken pizzas.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">This is my point, you don’t have a lot of control over what music does to you. It can move you in a million ways, your feet, your voice, your heart.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It can make people laugh, cry, fall in love, fight. Its magic, it should be treat as such.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It’s a multibillion dollar industry. Don’t become part of the wheel. Love whatever moves you, regardless of what it is. Don’t be afraid of music and don’t be afraid of what people may think. Try new things, listen to others ideas of ‘great’ before you dismiss it, you never know you just might make a discovery. I did, I hated Jazz all my life until I sat on a cold stone floor, tired and grumpy in the middle of New Orleans in order to ‘humour’ my man. I will be eternally grateful that I did. He gave me a gift that night that is very precious, a memory, and some of the best music I have ever heard played, he reminded me to push my limits and because of that a whole host of music takes me right back to him and what he taught me about music, at the age of 25 when I thought I couldn’t learn anymore.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">My Father is still learning and listening and my Mum is still not caring (her pan pipes CD is testament to this) and my brother is still trying to get me to love Oasis. Keep pushing, keep exploring, but always remain true to the memories, they like to be visited now and again.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">That started my desire to be a politician, I did concede that I would have to be a politician first and then of course I would be Prime Minister. Natural upgrade of course, I would be the obvious choice. I may have to wait a few years, but my first act would be to ban Fox Hunting. I never really thought much further than that, I have to be honest. My next act was to write a poem about Fox Hunting, that will show them. God my 10 year old self was awesome and fairly ridiculous.</span><br />
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</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06815036375807589699noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3432437867781323065.post-80822784174141475482011-05-29T03:43:00.000-07:002011-05-29T03:43:59.322-07:00Metallic Nails, Being yourself and Ladder Climbing<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">Having not got the best ability in the world to only think of one thing at a time. Think Billy Conolly and his ability to wander off topic and then come back with unerring accuracy, then lose the unerring accuracy and voila, you have something similar, minus the scottish accent and beard, to me. Keep the swearing, definately. I have tried, somewhat unsuccesfully to stop swearing. I have learned to say the F word less, although it can sometimes be a knee jerk reaction. There is something familiar about it, something in a swear word that conveys what it is you are trying to say, sometimes 'oops' or 'damn it' just dont cut it. A good well timed 'F*ck Off' can just be deeply satisfying. Not when its in the wrong moment though. Not when your boss has just asked you to do something and you respond with "are you having a f*cking laugh?'. Thats when you need to go put a dirham in the swear box, and also brush up on your ass kissing techniques, or your CV writing skills. Aside from swearing, I have had a few thoughts this weekend. Namely whilst having my nails done (just call me Jumeirah Jane), and a couple of people I know said wasnt I too old for metallic tin foil colour nails ?. This gave me pause for thought, and the answer is a little complicated. No. No I am not 'too old' is there such a thing. Dont stress, this isnt the moment when I start banging on about age, and you are as old as you feel etc, because there are certain things you just shouldnt do after a certain age :<br />
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See through shoes, on second thoughts, these should never be worn, scratch that. Unless you are a MEGA star, dont wear mini skirts, ever. After 19 wearing Doc Martens with a smart outfit just makes you look like an out of work student, and never ever wear a thong on the beach. Ever. Its never good, unless you are J-Lo, and even then, they make me feel a little ill. Boob tubes are questionable, as are any kind of lame hot pants. However my nails do not fall into that category as yet, if I want to have nails that reflect the surface of the sun, then I will. If I want my nails to resemble the stuff we wrap turkey in, then that is my own damn choice, and while I like it, it will continue to happen. End of conversation. Plus I love them and they make me smile, and I have the classy version (if that is indeed at all possible). Its about the importance of being yourself when it comes down to it, and more importantly quite liking yourself. I have a theory that no one else is going to like you if you dont like yourself, notice I said like, not love. There are FAR too many people in this country that cant walk past a mirror without giving themselves a thumbs up and a quick eyebrow raise to reaffirm their awesomeness. <br />
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I was considering a quick paragraph on the pitfalls of people cosying up to you for who you are and what you can achieve on their behalf. I then decided that whilst it may make me a bad judge of character, and it may end in tears (it certainly has before) I wont change my attitude to the people in my world. I wont question you, I wont look at you and question why you are in my life. This I promise. I promise I will do everything in my (limited) power to be the best friend I can be. I may fail, it has been known to happen. I will not wonder about your motivation, I will assume that your presence, however fleeting or permanent in my life is down to you and I having a connection because we have found something in one another that we like, and by that I dont mean roladexes or bank accounts. That will be all on the matter ... I am very blessed with the friends I have in my life, those who are near and those who are far, and I love them for who they are too. Mostly because they are amazing people. Sometimes its for their money and fame but mostly amazing, mostly.<br />
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</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06815036375807589699noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3432437867781323065.post-29965547780815624002011-05-15T02:59:00.001-07:002011-05-15T02:59:43.330-07:00Transatlantic Travels<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;">It has been awhile since I blogged, and I have learned to be ok with that. I cant just write on demand because I have to have something to say. Right now I have nothing specific to say, its just that writing sometimes makes me feel better. Bit like music, but I’ve had to really cast my net far today to find the solace I needed in music. I have finally landed on Country music, you can laugh, but every now and then my soul needs some twanging guitar and cowboy boots in order to feel better. Its been a odd couple of weeks.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;">I knew that saying goodbye to a friend would be painful, but consoled myself with thoughts that I would still have phone, email carrier pigeons etc and that in this day and age a little distance isnt the end of the world. Turns out I talk bollocks, not that this is news to anyone at all. Way harder than I thought it would be. Living in the UAE you get used to people coming and going, and therefore learn to make friends fast and learn to say goodbye fast. It’s a transient place, and it becomes a way of life, you end up with friends all over the globe and that’s a good thing. Every now and again though, when you least expect it someone comes along that you never expected, with no warning and it’s instant. That person is unique, that’s when its impossible to replace. </span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;">Snoop Dogg was one of the most interesting shows I have ever worked on, in terms of working with a different kind of tour party, in so many ways. In the middle of all this, I find myself standing in the lobby of a hotel watching history walk towards me, not looking a day different for 6 years of not seeing them. No matter how you move on or change, there are something’s in this world that remain constant, chocolate will always soothe the soul, shoes will always make a girl smile, especially if they have red soles, and some people <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>will always look good in a suit and make you smile so big you think your jaw will never stop aching. I left the hotel feeling very odd. My world in 2 weeks has had a fairly major shift in focus, and that makes you think. The pondering I will keep to myself, as we all know how I can ramble and these thoughts so far make about as much sense as Charlie Sheen, slightly less if truth were to be told, and just without the drugs, porn stars and warlock talk.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;">I have been refusing to entertain a birthday this year as I do not want to turn 30, I rephrase that, didn’t want to turn 30. I have decided to stop being childish, if I am going to be 30 I should behave like a grown up. I realized that by not throwing a party in normal Maxine style just actually makes me one of ‘those’ 30 year olds. So with renewed optimism and a slightly scaled down event streak, due to chronic fatigue am going to celebrate my birthday in the manner in which it should be. Surrounded by friends, and drinking <state w:st="on"><place w:st="on">Champagne</place></state>. I will however refrain from sending out the invites just yet, it is after all only May and well I get to be 29 for another glorious 3 months.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;">I am going to attack the rest of this year in the style of which I am proud of. I will reclaim my social status, and I will reclaim my hold on my sense of being. My kitchen is woefully underused this year, and the new cooker I bought in order to aid me with my mega cooking sessions still sits unplugged in. I am very fond of the old one, however cooking for 12 with only 1 working ring on the stove top can prove a little dicey at times. All is well with one chef, but add Mother Chef into the equation and there are just not enough electric rings to go round.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;">On other fronts, things are changing, noticeably my front, and rear.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I have dropped a few kilos and as such am now facing the dreaded task of the wardrobe over haul, the easy bit has been done, I have bought new clothes, interims as they are called. I then bought another set of interims as the first set got a bit baggy. This is great, a whole new set of underwear (that took some doing I have to add, aided by a surly Philipino lady and a much aggrieved mother). However I have to chuck out all the old stuff. This is going to take some doing. 6 wardrobes full of clothes that I love, but will have to get rid off. Its enough to make a girl cry. Safe to say my shoes all still fit, as do my handbags. Which to be quite frank is neither here nor there as if they didn’t fit, I would wedge tissue paper in them and wear them anyway, such does my love for my shiny feet covers run deep.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;">It’s been an odd few weeks, and now I am making some life plans, I have some life admin to get through, and then life will undoubtedly throw some new curveball at me and I will have to re-evaluate. Such is life.</span></span></div></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06815036375807589699noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3432437867781323065.post-62016921362731489232011-02-14T02:58:00.000-08:002011-02-14T02:58:57.980-08:00Facebook Valentine<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><br />
<div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.0pt;">I realise its Valentines day, but believe me there will be no ranting. I am not a huge believer and I am not a ‘this is a hallmark holiday’ town crier either. If you are with someone its nice, its nice to receive flowers etc, but this shouldn’t be reserved to only this day of the year. That’s it, mini attempt at a rant over.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.0pt;">Today I am mostly being the facebook superuser for the Yas Rock Factory and realizing just how powerful Facebook is, and also how terrifyingly at home I am with it. Everyone who knows me laughs at my status updates, and the frequency of my use of facebook. I see it as another outlet for me. I am regularly the girl who is stood up in a restaurant acting out a recent funny story for my group of friends. I am the one who cares not about the stares of others, the one who doesn’t care how loud she is, or where she is. In the name of being social, funny and 9 times out of 10 the centre of attention. So to give an exhibitionist who loves to perform a platform such as facebook is just asking for me to have billions of photos, and a million updates a day. I like to share, I talk frequently and am rarely quiet, why you would expect anything less from my facebook persona is odd. If nothing else Facebook is going to allow me to be even more of myself, which could be a little much, if not far too much at times. That’s the thing isnt it, its choice, I choose to read your statuses, I also choose to hide some of you, the reasons I hide you are my own. What you do on Facebook is up to you, I have no place to comment, I have more than enough ability to do something about it rather than wine or moan or make a big deal out of it.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.0pt;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.0pt;">Thats about the long and short of it today, got nothing much more for you than that :)</span></div></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06815036375807589699noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3432437867781323065.post-5212497659057349752011-02-02T02:53:00.000-08:002011-02-02T02:53:02.842-08:00Who lit the Grail shaped beacon ?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><br />
<div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.0pt;">It seems I write best, and most prolifically when I need to rant, vent or stop myself from being arrested for verbal abuse that borders on the physical. This is going to have to be part of the resolution as well, to push myself to write on topics that don’t require my sheer contempt. It has been an interesting week, the pitfalls of working in another country have been once again highlighted to me by the predicament of a friend. The sheer helplessness of being in the hands of other people, and having to rely on others for help and support can be a frightening thing. Especially in this country where an attitude of ‘its not my job’ prevails. That has always been something that I have tried and failed to understand. I could quite happily wax lyrical about the type of person who utters those sentences, however today will not turn into a rant. Safe to say though that the old adage of treat people as you would wish to be treat is a a good rule to live by, because to get very clichéd karma is an unforgiving bitch and will come back to haunt you. Good karma is something you should try and store up. That all sounds a bit preachy, I can be as vile as you like, a great expression I will steal that made me laugh the other day was, ‘ are the still treating you like Lord Voldermorts Niece?’ which sadly the answer had to be yes. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.0pt;">I have also begun the painful business of venturing into the world of renting a villa, I am desperate to rid myself of my 2 hour return trip home on an evening. When you have had a long day and all you can think about is your sofa and a glass of wine, the drive gets ever longer. Its actually not the driving, it’s the lack of driving, the sitting, and inching forwards and wondering what fool has tipped his car in order to keep me from my wine. I realize I am now starting to sound like an alcoholic. So the few things I have learned this week about villa hunting. Real Estate agents are liars, my apartment is an utter gem of a place and I want to move it 10 kilometeres up the road. I cant live in a generic apartment block for fear of killing myself due to averagitis.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.0pt;">That’s not a word I hear you say. To me it is, and also possibly to the mad Italian who I work with. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is something I have been terrified of my whole life, its what makes me strive to do what I do with my career. Being average. This is what has made me change my hair repeatedly over the years, adding colours, and stripes and even chopping it off, in order to avoid being ‘the same’. Thanks to my Mum I have always been happy to be ‘different’. Not in a special person type of way, although there is an argument for that too. So to live in a generic block of flats would take the person inside of me who has to be unlike everyone else and annoy her til she exploded. So I will not be living in a generic shoe box, I will continue to hunt until I find the quirky house I need.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.0pt;">In the meantime I will continue to shout at traffic and impatiently tap the wheel of my car in my daily quest to beat the traffic home to my wine.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06815036375807589699noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3432437867781323065.post-41392344190811612502011-01-23T23:32:00.001-08:002011-01-23T23:32:21.328-08:00Petrolhead...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><br />
<div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.0pt;">So as predicted I haven’t done this every day, which whilst being predictable isnt impressive, I should probably head off to my room to think about what I have done, or not done as the case may be. However I would a) enjoy that and b) get fired for being in bed and not at my desk, where I ALWAYS am. No bitterness intended.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.0pt;">When I think about what I have done instead of blogging I am not satisfied, I have had a week of being fairly ranty (granted its only Monday) and am constantly checking myself before I lose my temper fully. Those of you who know me, are wondering exactly what is different to normal. I am doing a bad job of being organised, doing 100 million things bit by bit. <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.0pt;">Anyway, my question today has to be directed at the people who fill my petrol tank, and before you whiny do gooders start banging on about how I should ‘fill my own tank’, think about ‘how much they get paid’ and so on and so forth. I take all that into consideration. I tip well, and would if needed fill my own car, but, and this is the big but. I don’t, they do, its their job, which they are paid for, I personally didn’t make them take the job (please insert more rants and more so ons and so forth as required). I drive to <st1:city w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">Abu Dhabi</st1:place></st1:city> every day, I have my petrol buying off to a fine art. I know exactly how far a full tank will get me, to the kilometer. So finely tuned is my ability to know where I am at petrol wise that I know how much will get me to several different places, Hessa’s, my Mum’s, my house, The Yacht Club. Now, when I say give me a full tank, I mean it, I need it and I am prepared to pay for it. So to give me 490 km instead of 525 km because there is a queue of people behind me, makes me want to drive back to the petrol station and stamp my foot, or wrap the petrol hose around your neck, especially as I gave you a 10dhs tip for the bloody benefit of YOU deciding how much petrol my car requires. As any of you know who have tried to fill your car at any petrol station along the route between Dubai and Abu Dhabi you will know that Abu Dhabi side there is always a queue of up to 15 cars minimum, so I can understand the frustration and the stick which you must put up with, please however bear in mind that when I get about 5 minutes away and realize I have been short changed I am not only a little bit angry but livid. I realize that this could be fixed by a quick stop at another less busy petrol station, or getting up 15 minutes early and topping up. I work hard, I drive a long way and those 15 minutes of extra sleep time are worth every last minute. Selfish rant over.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.0pt;">Today I decided that I required my Louboutins to go with a new jacket, I also realized the mish mash of clothes that I am wearing, it makes me giggle. 3 compliments so far on the jacket, and 4 on the outfit as a whole, the shoes cost ten times more than the whole outfit. The jacket itself was 50dhs in Primark which just goes to prove to me that people don’t know the difference, and that I don’t care. I love my expensive shoes for their comfort and shiny red soles and everything else is just because I love it.<o:p></o:p></span></div></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06815036375807589699noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3432437867781323065.post-88499104127421596222011-01-18T00:50:00.000-08:002011-01-18T00:50:00.620-08:00Driving Miss Crazy...<div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.0pt;">Rain, it causes mayhem and sillyness in <st1:city w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">Dubai</st1:place></st1:city>. These are fairly calm words compared to the ones I was using on my drive to work this morning, not even the smooth sounds of Rob Thomas could stop me from shouting at the white BMW 4x4 that threatened to run me off the road. I appreciate a few things about this utter moron, he obviously has bought into the idea that hanging a CD and a set of prayer beads from your rear view mirror is the best way to combat those pesky speed cameras. They really should just be removed so that this poor man doesn’t have to put up with the blinding light in his eyes every few hundred yards. He was after all just trying to make sure that the 2 women and child in his car got to wherever it was they were going at the speed of light. No other speed would have sufficed for these special charges. I say special charges for a few reasons, the main one being that as the child was not strapped in and was standing on the arm rest between him and his front seat passenger, he must hold him and his safety close to his heart. The seatbelt is obviously just a restriction put on this earth to stop him waving his arms about and also turning to the back seat to converse with his other passengers; in this case I believe we should just have them removed. Whilst we are removing things, possibly his wing mirrors, as they just make the car slightly wider, and make it even harder to use the hard shoulder as an extra lane for driving in, and as he is already turned backwards for conversational purposes we should just remove the rear view mirror. It just gets in the way of the windscreen when he is gesticulating and trying to make a point to the car in front. However without that he may have to resort to sticking a hook on his wind screen for the beads and CD, saying that though, if we remove the speed cameras there would be no need, problem solved.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.0pt;">The bull bar should also be removed as it makes it harder for him to get as close as humanly possible to the car in front, in order to make his point more clearly, so really all cars should have their bumpers removed as well, so that he can get within the requisite 2cm rather than 15cm. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The flashing of lights is mandatory, full beam essential in order to make your point. It works even better if you can put your hazards on at the same time. At this point it would be helpful to note that you are not special, the man in the BMW is not just asking you to move, he would be delighted if you could pass on the message to the car directly in front of you, and directly to your right, if you could also employ the same methods as him it would work faster. <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.0pt;">Also I would at this point like to commend our police for the sterling work they did during the above process. Talking on your mobile whilst doing 160 in the slow lane was helpful in ways I cannot describe, it is beyond words.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.0pt;">I have many views on the driving on the Abu Dhabi highway, many of which I cannot express without getting a warning for language either from my mother or the greater gods of the internet, such is the level that is required. I usually just grin and bear it but today, to you, the muppet in the bmw, I hope your tyres fall off and someone shoves a potatoe up your exhaust, believe me if I knew where you lived I would.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.0pt;"><br />
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</span></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06815036375807589699noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3432437867781323065.post-90176497679325406982011-01-17T04:36:00.000-08:002011-01-17T04:36:38.237-08:00Inconsistent NoiseAs a person who writes when she feels like it, and very rarely on command, unless it is of course my job and then I can pretty much pull it out of the bag and produce some of my most average work, I have notes, blogs and ramblings all over the place. Facebook, emails, my work website. I occasionally get told I should write more often, in more cases than most its just because of the random nature of my rambles that they hold attention. Either that or as sometimes noted, I write like I talk, which makes it somewhat difficult, yet fairly entertaining to read my chatter.<br />
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So as a fairly late resolution I have decided to blog. Later than most it seems I will join the revolution. I will however not be blogging about nothing. I literally cannot bear incessant blogging of nothingness. Facebook and Twitter are there for you humorless morons who feel the need to update your status that you are brushing your teeth, hungry, going to bed, going to work, are devoid of soul.<br />
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A blog is a look at life, not a place to tell us your most boring details of the day.<br />
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So I intend to blog about subjects. I do not promise they will be of interest, I do not promise they will be relevant or funny. They will however have a meaning and a purpose of some sort.<br />
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For example this blog serves the purpose of me beginning, and also pointing out how much I hate the status wasters. Please see new invented title for those above mentioned morons who I have to hit ignore / remove on Facebook for immediately as it defies logic that you would spare the time to update your status to reflect the most mundane moments of your day. Are you really that dull ?<br />
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So there we go kids. Expect more in the form of rants, and questions and general chats from me. Please feel free to join in at any point..Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06815036375807589699noreply@blogger.com0